The Sexual Intellectual - Alicia@990WBOB.com
Most of us as humans enjoy variety. No one drinks the same coffee EVERY DAY, eats the same exact meal everyday. Hell! Most of us don't want to look at the same people everyday. Yet when it comes to the bedroom we all want monogamy, fidelity, and loyalty. There is a switch between our hearts, minds and loins that lack communication. When I entered into my first long term relationship, I thought to myself am I ok with this being the only man I have sex with for the rest of my life?!?! I almost gave myself a panic attack! That sounded horrible, yet...
The thought of allowing him to have sex with other people made my heart hurt. I began to wonder how I could have it all. The variety my animal instinct desired, with the monogamy my heart needed.
Here's some tips:
While my S/O and I were on a cruise together, I secretly brought along my sexy maid outfit. I made believe I was room service, I called him Mr. (insert last name) to make it sound professional and I gave myself some fake name to suit my role. In the act, I kept telling him we needed to be careful not to be caught by his wife, for Mrs. (insert last name) would be back soon. The act was over and I asked if he needed a turn down service. There was no room service, no Mr. and Mrs. so and so but the rush of being dirty and sneaky gave it the fun spice I needed and made for a great memory.
Who knows?!?! Maybe with enough comfort, trust and support, your S/O will make your fantasy...a reality.