By Alicia: The Sexual Intellectual Raw Sex session #11 In many different roles in life, some of us may find we are more comfortable "taking the lead," or some may enjoy a more passive approach with certain projects. The same goes for the bedroom, there is usually one person who is more dominant in a sexual situation and one more submissive. A submissive by definition is: One ready to conform to authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. But don't be confused! Some of us who are leaders in the world of business enjoy being someone else's pet, and that "nerdy" guy you make fun of by the water cooler, may have a harem of women whom enjoy obeying his every command. I won't go into the world of BDSM or too detailed discussion about dominant or submissive roles in this blog (I'll save it for an episode of Raw Sex) but I will say, in my professional world... I am strong, independent, a leader, a planner, a go getter. Behind closed doors my sexual preferences take a sharp left turn. I enjoy feeling helpless and taken advantage of, the "damsel in distress" feeling. Some may feel they are comfortable in both roles which is termed a "Switch."
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