It takes many years and a lot of practice to be able to call yourself a Sexpert. It’s not a numbers thing -- like how many people you sleep with, but rather HOW you sleep with people.
How satisfied you are with the sex you’re having? Young peeps have the misconception of the more the better, but in all reality, you don't have to bang 50 people to be a Sexpert. I mean if you do go out and seduce 50 people, good for you! I just hope your satisfied by the level of pleasure you receive and give during these interactions, because that folks, is what it’s all about.
There are a few key items you can keep in the home or even on you, if you’re the spontaneous sexual encounter type of person. No judgments here, i mean who doesn't enjoy being banged by a stranger in a public park unexpectedly?
Mya Destinee Approved Essentials
You will need:
I like a good water based lube with no flavoring.The less chemicals inside you the better. I like Pink Water. You want a lube to ease the friction of intercourse to make for a better, smoother, wetter ride.
Man or woman, a person who spends enough time taking care of their personal needs is a person I would like to bang. If you are fully expecting to be banged or do the banging, a little primping before hand is never a bad idea. Shave your legs, or don’t, you feminist. Just be a clean you!
Girls like porn too. No doubt about it. Keeping it at home is a good idea, but don't travel in public and watch porn, please, because you will be arrested probably almost immediately. Timing is everything with playing porn when you're sitting there with someone. DOn;t just throw that shit on randomly.Be in the mood,the other person be in the mood, and play the ‘copy the porn star’.
A sex toy (or two)
I like to have a dildo and a vibe handy for all my sexual encounters. If i’m with a woman, it’s fun to be able to have more options than just fingers. For the boys, it’s great for double penetration, which feels AMAZING!.
You never know when your going to need a play list of songs to fuck to. It’s 4 a.m. and you are finally alone with your crush, throw that bad mamah jammin' playlist on to set the mood. We all know I’m a fan of NIN, but anything to get it going. Like bangin to Metallica? Do it up. Bang to Britney, Bitch, who cares?
Most importantly -- an open mind
Woman miss opportunity for great sex for fear of being judged. Even men get slack now a days for enjoying sex. It’s pitiful. Have an open mind, and explore what get’s you and your partner off. You will be surprised what This list of essential doing it items and an open mind can get you into.