Who is Mya Destinee? Be it that I am the resident love expert I took it upon myself to sit down with 990WBOB's newest and perhaps most attractive hostess to find the answer to that very question. As she embarks on what should be a very promising career in media with her new BobCast, Under the Covers we take a moment to crawl in bed for a little foreplay.
Charlie Valentine: 990WBOB.com has had several different sexperts, commenting on subjects from penis size to infidelity. Who is Mya Destinee, and what does she offer that hasn't been heard before?
Mya Destinee: I’m a woman who believes sex should be a mind-blowing, sensual, fun, and consensual act that men AND woman get to enjoy. I want women to know that sex is amazing, and that no matter your past, you still deserve to have a sexual relationship that is mutually beneficial. Nothings worse than a woman who can’t be man enough to bare it all, be naked and confident, who demands respect for her sexual prowess. I’m a woman who, through years of seeing sex, loving sex, having sex and hating sex, have learned a great deal of information and tricks ,tactics and tools to make sex worth having. You haven’t heard my stuff or read stuff like mine, because it comes right from the source. I’m a woman who considers herself a tri-sexual, as in I will try ANYTHING once. You can’t grow if you don’t know! My stuff is real, raw, and uncensored. I’m not afraid to dive deep into real issues, and have fun doing it. I also like bunnies, The Smiths, ball gags, and doing it on the beach.
CV: What exactly qualifies you as a sexpert, and what experiences will you draw upon to share with readers?
MD: I’m a woman who loves sex. From Stripper extraordinaire to web cam sex model, I've worked in sexual professional settings for most my adult life. Some woman can use sex to gain money, skills, and knowledge of men, woman and how money dictates most everything. I've had sex with a multitude of people, men, woman alike. I've done the things I talk and write about. No slut shaming necessary, I’m proud of my sexual endeavors! You don’t always come out the other side scared and battered, but strong and confident. My experiences in the sex industry gives me a unique insight to men, sex and money. I’ll draw from those experiences, as well as all the sexcapades of my days to enlighten readers on how to be having BETTER SEX!
CV: What kind of sexual partner is Mya Destinee?
MD: A fucking sexual Goddess, duh! My sex is always safe, fun, and addicting. Giving back is half the fun, so no orgasm goes unreturned. I like all kinds of sex, from S&M to the Porn kind, to the candles lit, romantic kind. Sex can be so god damn good, if woman sought the power to control their own sex lives. I like trying new things, and once I’m close to a partner, nothing is off limits. I would never miss out on better sex because it’s not socially acceptable to admit, and try anal, or bondage. I’m all about mind blowing sex, the sex that gets your toes to curl, and it’s a shame when people miss out for fear of judgment.
CV: What are the most attractive qualities you look for in a lover, both male and female?
MD: Confidence, in both sexes is important. I need a level of control, but my partners need to be able to confidently tie me to a bed. I don’t want some dude to climb on top of me and jack rabbit me to death. No. I need a connection of some sort, not emotional but primal. The most attractive thing people can do is have the balls to say “I want to fuck you, because you make me want you’. To be unabashed to what ifs of it all. The “what if” kind of attitude don’t do it for me. I need, want, crave strong, open minded individuals to have amazing sexual experiences with.
CV: What are the most daunting taboos holding women back from reaching their sexual potential?
MD: Themselves. Woman are constantly being slut shamed in the media for normal, everyday sexual acts. Woman need to not buy into the hype, and stop slut shaming themselves! Great sex SHOULD be normal. Woman believe that sex is for the man, and that is fuckin awful. The lesbian relationships I’ve had taught me that sex is, should be, mutually amazing. Woman are told that anal is for bad girls, blow jobs for ugly girls, and GOD FORBID you have sex with more than one person at a time. Woman limit themselves from reaching their sexual potential because they don’t understand that their sexual appetite and likings matter. Woman are so scared to reach out and try new things because they will be so harshly judged for it. A man who says “I banged two girls last night, it was awesome” and a woman who says the same is looked at totally different. Woman are immediately labeled sluts, and men, Gods. If woman, all woman, said “I like to have orgasms just as much as you” and stopped buying into this slut shaming bullshit, the WHOLE WORLD would be having better, more intense and MUTUAL sex. I’m gunna go Frozen on your ass and tell you to LET IT GO, Girl! Just let it go. Forget what people will say and focus on your own desires.
CV: Off the record, I can't think of a good reason we can't just innocently make out a little....
MD: It’s cuz I love and respect ya, doll. =)
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