Under The Covers: Private Dancer

Mya Destinee


Ladies, this one is for you. Turn your bedroom into the Champagne room for the ultimate pleasure. Lap dances aren't just for strippers anymore! They can be sensual, sexy, flirty, and most of all, fun. Ladies, reach in and bring out your inner stripper, and bask in the glow of SEXY!

You will need some tools for this trade. Start with some Fuck me Pumps

Lingerie that suits your personality. Nothings worse than having any lady pretend to be something she’s not.

Music to get down to.  Make a playlist of songs that you would enjoy dancing to. Closer by NIN is ALWAYS a good jumping off point. But have fun with it, sister girl.

Confidence. A bad lap dance consists of a girl who’s too shy to do it. OWN what you have. Lap dances in their natural settings are designed to tease. A preview of what’s to come if the gentleman purchases a Champagne Room. Although you are not dancing for money, you are dancing for the tease of it.

Set the mood with lighting. Clubs are purposely dark, with no clocks or windows to keep the men oblivious of just how much time goes by. Darken your own bedroom. Keep in mind every woman ever looks better by candle light. You want it bright enough to see, but dark enough to bring out that inner sex demon.

A chair with no arms, or a chair big enough for two to move around in. It must be big enough for you to strattle your lucky participant. The bed works just as well, but the chair gives it a “this is new, let’s do it on this chair!” feel.

  So you have the tools, but where to start? Make yourself stripper ready, girl, do your hair, put some make up on, play into the fantasy. BE your partners own personal stripper. Embody the power of those fuck me pumps. Good strippers make more money by looking fabulous and taking care of themselves. They make MORE money by confidently teasing their customers. Embody that confidence. Have a glass of wine if it helps, but be cautious, because no one likes a sloppy drunk stripper.

After your partner is seated, and is fully aware of what’s about to come, start your sex playlist.

Slink on over to your partner, slowly, allowing them to soak up the sex radiating from your body.  Stand in front, facing them, slowly pushing your breasts in front of their face. Limit touching, you don’t want to give it all way yet! Work them over with your breasts, keeping them covered for the time being. TEASE TEASE TEASE. Show them your best assets up close. Let your partner touch your hips, breasts, ass, but DO NOT let them touch your sexy bits yet. Just like in the club, only naughty girls give it all up in a lap dance booth. Keep a comfortable pace, and keep notice of your partner’s reaction. Repeat the things that they like and notice more. If they like the feeling of your ass grinding and shaking on their lap, do that. If they like a more hands off visual, play with yourself through your panties. Turn around and drape yourself over your partner, laying back on their body, so your breasts are on full, glorious display, grind your ass in their lap, moving his hands up and down your body.  Slowly strip those clothes right off, until you are naked, except for those ever important fuck me pumps. Lose yourself in the music, take pleasure from your partner’s reaction to your bold and sex filled surprise. The more you enjoy yourself, the more turned on and wanting you are, the more turned on and wanting your partner will be. Don’t think you need to be all hair flips and twerking. You don’t. You do what YOU need to do to make your partner lose control.

When your partner can’t take not a second more of your tantalizing dance, when they have truly had enough, and need more, give in. Strippers aren’t allowed to fuck their customers, so you have the advantage over them that way, girl! You get the reward of all that hard work: amazing, hot, wet, sexy sexy sex.  Revel in the fact that you just blew MINDS with these moves, tips and tricks. Remember, OWN IT GIRL!

XOXOX

Mya